How to Spot Abuse During a Routine Exam.
It can be as subtle as a dermatologist asking how often you have sex, since sex is “good for the skin;” or asking to see an intimate area for signs of acne. But it can get a lot sketchier when touching is involved, which brings us to OB/GYN examinations.
In the last year alone, ACFW has supported more than half a dozen lawsuits involving physicians who betrayed their patients’ trust and abused their professional authority by sexually assaulting patients under the façade of legitimate treatment when you’re lying on the exam table – especially when your breasts, vagina, and/or rectum may be the subject of inspection. Or not.
How Do I Know If I Was Sexually Assaulted by a Doctor?
Maybe at first, you don’t. Doctors should know what’s necessary to help you, right, even if you don’t, right? But that’s the tricky part because society has taught us that doctors can be trusted to touch our bodies in ways it would be wrong for someone else to.
Instinct, though, doesn’t lie. If something felt creepy, it likely was.
What Are Some Examples of Doctor Assault?
Many of the elite athletes under (then Dr.) Larry Nassar’s care, for example, didn’t know that what he was doing to them constituted sexual abuse. His “vaginal adjustments” were often performed right in front of a patient’s mom sitting in the room.
Jennifer Rood-Bedford played volleyball at Michigan State University and went to Nasser for back, leg, and shoulder injuries. In a private room, he laid her face down on the examining table and began massaging her buttocks and pelvic area, saying it was part of his winning medical technique.
“He would just ask me questions and talk about life, his work, and how he had used this method to help so many,” Rood-Bedford said. Then he gradually slid his fingers into her vagina. “I remember laying there wondering, ‘Is this OK? This doesn’t seem right.’ I didn’t know what to do.”
Kyle Stephens was six when Nassar first exposed himself to her in a boiler room with the lights switched off. For the next six years, he masturbated in front of her, rubbed his penis against her bare foot, and inserted his finger into her vagina. When she told her parents at age 12, Nassar convinced her parents she was making it all up. In court, she called him a “repulsive liar.”
“Little girls don’t stay little forever,” Stephens said. “They grow into strong women that return to destroy your world,” reported CNN.