Roblox Is Fun, Until It’s Not: How to Keep Your Kids Safe on Roblox

Let’s start with this: The CEO of Roblox has publicly implied that the safety of children on the platform is solely the responsibility of parents. And honestly? That’s a giant red flag.

This kind of deflection is not just frustrating—it’s gaslighting. It shifts the burden entirely onto caregivers while the company profits off a platform that attracts young users and fails to protect them fully. Yes, parents have a critical role to play—but when a platform is designed for kids and actively markets to them, it also holds a responsibility to ensure it’s safe.

So what do we do now? If your child is one of the 85+ million kids logging into Roblox every month, you’ve probably seen the sparkle in their eyes. The worlds they can explore, the avatars they design, the endless “obby” games and roleplays—it’s a digital wonderland. But let’s not sugarcoat this:

“Roblox might be built for kids, but predators have found the unlocked door—and they’re walking right in. ”

Here’s the thing. Platforms like Roblox sell themselves as “safe spaces” for young minds to create, connect, and express. But in reality? They often become digital playgrounds with far too little supervision, and far too many ways for harm to hide in plain sight. The avatars are cute. The games are innocent. But predators know how to wear a mask.

Children as young as five are navigating these online spaces with little understanding of the risks, while the platform technically starts at 13. And we’re over here expecting just to hope the parental controls hold? Absolutely not.

Why Predators Love Roblox

Predators go where kids go. And Roblox makes that heartbreakingly easy. The platform allows users to create anonymous profiles, engage in public and private chats, join groups, and—here’s the kicker—message other users without much vetting. The filters? They’re helpful, but they’re not foolproof. People with bad intentions know how to speak in code, build trust slowly, and lure children into deeper, more dangerous conversations.

Sometimes it’s not even just about Roblox. These predators will nudge kids toward other platforms like Discord—often linked directly through Roblox’s systems—see below example.

How Can I Tell If My Child Is Keeping Activity on Roblox Hidden From Me?

You don’t need to snoop or shame your child. But you do need to stay aware. Kids don’t always know when they’re being manipulated. And predators are patient—they groom, they flatter, they wait. So we, as parents, need to be paying close attention to shifts in behavior:

Sudden secrecy around screen time – If the laptop or tablet snaps shut when you walk by, that’s a clue.
Late-night gaming – When everyone else is sleeping, predators are wide awake.
Mystery “friends” they won’t talk about – If they’re using vague usernames or can’t tell you who they’re chatting with, it’s time to dig deeper.
Mood swings or anxiety post-game – Gaming should be fun. If they’re stressed afterward, ask why.
Multiple or hidden accounts – If there’s a second Roblox login or secret browser history, that’s not just “tech curiosity.” That’s a flag.

Yes, They Might Have an Account You Don’t Know About

Roblox has parental controls, but let’s be real, some kids are digital Houdinis. They’ll make side accounts, lie about their age, borrow a friend’s phone, or go incognito mode like tiny undercover agents. And here’s the kicker: even if you’ve locked everything down, a friend can still invite your child into a private chat room where restrictions don’t apply. If that friend doesn’t have safety settings on, your child could be exposed to anything or anyone.

How Can I Protect My Child on Roblox?

Start with empathy, not fear. Be the safe space your child can turn to when something weird happens online. Don’t lead with punishment—lead with curiosity. Ask about their games and their friends. Talk (in age-appropriate ways) about what grooming is, what manipulation feels like, and how to spot a red flag—even if it comes with compliments. Keep the lines of communication open and be the first to know if something seems off.

Set digital boundaries, yes. Use the controls. But know this: no filter, app, or password is more powerful than a connected parent. And until Roblox does better, we have to stay vigilant. Talk to other caregivers. Talk to teachers. Build a web of care around your child, because safety isn’t just your job—it’s all of ours.

What to Do If Your Child Has Been Hurt

Stay Calm – your child needs to be reassured that you are a safe, steady place.
Avoid punishment – even if rules were broken, this is time for support only, not consequences. You want honesty and healing, and punishment will shut the conversation down.
Stick to simple, open-ended questions: “Can you tell me what happened?” “Has this been going on for a while?”
Collect info – usernames, screenshots of chats, anything you can collect. Do not delete or block until you have reported it to the authorities.
Report to your local law enforcement.
File a report with the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children at https://report.cybertip.org/
Support healing – talk to their school counselor or find local resources from NAMI.org

Parents, you are not alone in this. We talk to many families every day who have been targeted by these super predators. And know this – it is not your fault or your child’s fault; it’s Roblox’s fault for failing to make their platform safer.

When Safety Fails, There’s Still a Path Forward

If your child has experienced harm on Roblox, it’s not just unsettling. It’s unacceptable. And you may have the right to take action.

That’s where we come in. Our team supports families like yours every day, helping you understand your options, access support, and speak out when no one else will.

Reach out to A Case for Women to connect with someone that is not just an advocate. We’re parents, too. And we believe in showing up for each other when the systems meant to protect our kids fall short.